My husband and I are both white. I had two kids without giving up my career, and it was damn hard. My oldest son and DIL just adopted their foster daughter, who is one year old, Hispanic and was abandoned at the hospital. They will soon adopt their foster son, who is three months old, biracial, and also left at the hospital. I am so thankful to the birth mothers, though, who elected to have these children who are now ours to love and help raise. I don't care that they're not blue-eyed blondes. They are family.